My therapist:Look at nature. Look at flowers. We never walk into our garden and say "Oh wouldn't that flower be so much more pretty if it were taller? Or red instead of pink?" No, we don't. Because nature was created perfect just as it is. And so are we. We are part of nature, we are how we're meant to be, we are perfect just as we are.
"you had no childhood if you didn’t watch that movie!" I start to feel it. my memory is fading. I have forgotten the day I learned to ride a bike. I forget my first day of kindergarden. It has happened. I had no childhood
“To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness.”—Woody Allen (1935-)
“When nobody else celebrates you, learn to celebrate yourself. When nobody else compliments you, then compliment yourself. It’s not up to other people to keep you encouraged. It’s up to you. Encouragement should come from the inside.”—Joel Osteen (via fcknsrs)
i lOVE THE FRIENDS U DON’T TALK TO THAT OFTEN BUT U LIKE DON’T NEED TO BC YOU KNOW THEY’RE LIKE ALWAYS THERE AND U BOTH UNDERSTAND THAT UR FRIENDS AND THAT LIFE IS BUSY BUT UR STILL FRIENDS AND U CAN TALK AFTER LIKE A COUPLE MONTHS OR EVEN A YEAR AND NOTHINGS AWKWARD U CAN TALK TO THEM LIKE U JUST TALKED TO THEM YESTERDAY THOSE FRIENDSHIPS ARE THE MOST RELAXED AND NON STRESSFUL FRIENDSHIPS EVER
one of my favourite ship combos is when you have one really grumpy/cranky character or someone deathly serious who never smiles and a really happy/bubbly/energetic character that drags them everywhere and the first character looks really unamused but the happy character’s having the time of their life and then the happy character smooches the grumpy character and the grumpy character just gives this soft little smile and AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
“A man can wear a bow tie and a fez and he’s in costume. A woman can spend hundreds of pounds or weeks of her time on an exact replica of an outfit a minor character wore onscreen for five minutes, whilst reciting the Prime Directive in Klingon, and she’s an attention-seeking slut.”— The New Statesman on fake geek girls (x)
Friendly reminder that yesterday when my mom took me to Walmart she left me alone in the toilet paper section and this guy started hitting on me and I said “Sorry, I’m a lesbian.” and he was like “Oh my god I’m so sorry I thought you were a boy.”